Kat Caldera

Helping you reclaim your personal, authentic vibration. . .your true self. ✦ Ready to take your Self into your own hands? The wisest people eventually realize:
We are the ones we've been waiting for. Your body, mind, and soul are crying out for support—and no external system will ever fully know what you need. But you can. And I can help you access that power. Through a trauma-informed, soul-centered coaching approach, I help you identify the real roots of your distress—whether it’s physical, emotional, gender-related, or existential—and guide you back to your True Self. When you work with me, you don’t get a generic checklist. You get a mirror, a map, and a companion.
You get yourself, optimized.

For high-functioning humans who know something's off—and are ready to take full responsibility for their personal instrument - their Self. We help you tune into your True Self & fine tune that instrument into an optimal state of being. We combine all forms of self-healing & self-creation: nervous system repair, trauma integration, self re-programming & re-parenting. Many modalities are custom blended to create personalized whole-life upgrades so that you can operate your person from power and peace.

Who Am I? A key question for the human being. Finding and becoming whoever you truly are is not a guarantee in life. There are many detours into many masks of survival along the road in life. Reaching Self Authentication is the prized milestone of psychological health and personal development. My coaching is designed to help you find and become your authentic self. . .your True Self. Accessing your True Self is also the process of Self Healing. Being your True Self, in a healed state... This is the way to living well. For you and for your village.

Self care for the mama bear. 1 on 1 & group coaching for women facing unjust custody battles as they leave abusive, punitive, controlling partners & family / group systems. This is care and guidance for mama bears so that they stay strong, steady and on point in everything they do. I make it possible for mom's to navigate the dangers of divorce while insulating their kids as best as possible.

A coach who specializes in becoming your authentic self is perfect for addressing the uncomfortable sensation of gender dysphoria. If you or someone you know is having gender distress, it is important to aim for the cultivation of the authentic self. It is also important to double check that old traumas have been addressed, processed and healed so that they aren't stored in the body. Stored trauma in the body does drive human feelings and behaviors. It's important to process trauma before moving onto the serious medical interventions involved in gender transition.

Coaching for the brave folks who are detransitioning. Identity Coaching & Trauma Processing that helps you recover your True Self . Sometimes transitions lead to a person feeling lost from their authentic self. You are not alone in this discomfort & this service exists to comfort you and walk you home to yourself.

Most counselors and teachers will readily affirm your child's suspicions that they are "in the wrong body". It is very difficult to find assistance that will actually help your child with the upsetting feelings they are experiencing. My coaching & app is designed to actually help your child with the miserable effects of the gender confusion agenda. This can help you keep your child healthy & whole in their original gender. . .which helps you keep your loving connection with your child alive & well.

At the core of all of my coaching is a deep understanding of trauma - how it stores in the body and how that effects the being and how we can heal that and become more comfortable and joyful beings. Whatever coaching goals we are focused on, I will be aware of the layers of trauma beneath things and I will always coach you into greater awareness of the trauma living in your energy field so that you can self heal those layers & upgrade beyond those limitations.

🌱 Scholarship Opportunity I reserve 1–2 spots each quarter for those who are in deep need of this work but are truly unable to invest at this time. If finances are a major obstacle for you and you're navigating punitive abuse, gender distress, detransition recovery, or supporting a loved one through identity confusion—and you’re committed to healing—I invite you to apply for a scholarship. This offering is made in reverence for the truth-seekers & self healers who deserve support, especially when life’s challenges have led to financial strain. Issues of identity, body, and soul often go hand-in-hand with financial hardship—and that hardship can become a real obstacle to reclaiming your power. This scholarship aims to offer a leg up and over those obstacles—so you can rise out of survival, out of the false and limited self, and into your authentic, empowered, and abundant Self. When you apply, please me know you think you could benefit from this work but cannot afford it.